Tragedy
- Not Justice for California Teen
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http://www.directoryoflinks.com/desiree/declaration.html
warning:
graphic detail of sexual molestation
***PRESS RELEASE***
Simi
Valley resident Linda Nelson may be arrested shortly by the District Attorney of
the County of Ventura. She is accused of refusing to send her child for
visitation with her former husband in the State of Virginia. According to a
Declaration filed by the minor under Penalty of Perjury in Case No. SD 021982
filed in Superior Court in Simi Valley the child declared, "My father,
Edward Bongiovanni, would get into the bathtub with me and rub his penis up and
down until it grew big. This happened frequently whenever I would visit.
Moreover, when I would complain, my father would hit me severely leaving
bruises".
On August 1, 2003 the Superior Court was asked to issue an emergency Order
keeping the child in the State of California until a psychiatric examination of
the child could be done and until the allegations could be further investigated.
On August 5, 2003 the Judge in the Ventura Superior Court elected to give
jurisdiction with regard to the matter to a Virginia Court which has already
demanded that the mother allow the child to have visits with her father in
Virginia and unsupervised by anyone. In other words, the Court in Virginia, the
home of the father of the child wants to force a molested child to visit with
the person who the child claims to have molested her without any protection for
the child.
Although the Superior Court in Simi Valley could have asserted his right to
emergency jurisdiction in order to protect the child, it has refused to do so.
Similarly, the Human Services Agency refused to step in to assert the
jurisdiction of Juvenile Court to protect the child. The mother, Linda
Nelson has been placed on notice that if she does not force the child to visit
with her alleged molester, the mother will be arrested and jailed.
Verification of this story may be accomplished by reviewing the documents on
file in Case SD 021982 in Superior Court in Simi Valley, CA. You may
further contact this office at 818-348-3500. The mother may be contacted at
805-581-9428.
Robert M. Levy, Attorney for Linda Nelson
6740 Fallbrook Avenue, West Hills, CA
818-348-3500 law52@Prodigy.net
Tragedy - Not Justice - In Virginia
http://www.directoryoflinks.com/desiree/declaration.html
(links
herein provide greater detail)
additional court info relevant to Virginia:
The biological father, Edward Bongiovanni lives at 4901 Seminary
Road, Apt. 1007, Alexandria, VA 22311
The case has gone on for 11 years in the Alexandria Family Courts as has the
molestation and abuse. My daughter and I however, moved out of VA 6 years
ago (with the court's permission) to Simi Valley, CA. Because the crimes
are committed in VA durning visitations, my home state of CA is helpless to do
anything about this on the criminal aspect. Because Judge Rideout refuses to
release jurisdiction of the case to CA, our CA Child Protective Services people
nor can our courts do anything about the abuse and molestation.
Things that have been done to Desiree are considered felonies out here - in fact
had this been happening out in CA, my ex-husband would have had a psychiatric
examination and having failed that, probably never again allowed to even see
Desiree because the state of CA does not believe in putting the victims of
molestation back in the prescence of their predators - he'd have been in jail
already I've been told, serving time for the molestation.
Judge Rideout refuses to consider the reason Desiree has fought these forced
visitations all these years (and deeply hates her father) is because during the
visitations she is abused and molested. He prefers to follow the mantra
the State of VA has, which is to keep the family unit together at all costs.
That is how Katelyn Frazier and Brianna Blackmond ended up dead while in
the jurisdiction of the same court and Child Protective Services.
Instead, with a need to cast blame, Judge Rideout prefers to believe Desiree is
a 'classic case of Parental Alienation Syndrome' (PAS) although Dr. Susan
Tuttle, Desiree's psychologist reported in 1999 that Desiree does NOT have PAS
and neither does anyone else in this family. Two months ago, Desiree was
seen by a specialist in PTSD (Post Traumatic Stress Disorder) because the
medications she's been on since last August are not eliminating the nightmares,
extreme emotional roller coaster, etc. It was confirmed by the specialist
that Desiree indeed does have PTSD, a common illness of children who have been
molested and/or abused.
Judge Rideout, along with the help of his court-assisgned Guardian ad Litem,
Jonathan Westrich, have refused to allow any reports from Desiree's psychologist
(Dr. Susan Tuttle) into the VA courtroom as evidence - there are 4 reports now -
nor the report from Desiree's medical practioner, Dr. George Carbone, who
diagnosed Desiree with G.E.R.D. over three years ago (the G.E.R.D. was just the
first of the illnesses to appear because of the massive amount of stress Desiree
undergoes pre- and during the visitations). Because they are California
practioners (and all three are highly qualified - in fact one is court-certified
to testify) does not mean what they have to say is not highly revelant to this
case. These medical practioners see Desiree frequently (her psychologist
sees her every week) - and THESE are the people who's opinions should be heard.
PAS is not even a viable defense in the majority of family law courtrooms around
this country because it is not based on any scientific facts nor medical trials.
You can read more about this perspective of this case at the web page
which also lists Desiree's declaration to the courts:
Tragedy - Not Justice - in Virginia
http://www.directoryoflinks.com/desiree/declaration.html
Regardless of the fact we live in California, a child-now-a-young-lady has been
horribly abused and molested by her biological father who lives in Virginia
throughout the years during visitations when she comes back across the state
lines. Our state cannot step in and do anything (the legal system nor Child
Services) because Judge Rideout (of VA) refuses to release the jurisdiction,
refuses to consider the reports from the 3 California experts and prefers to
stand on his ego, not knowing the facts in this case.
The GAL has REFUSED to even allow Desiree to speak directly to the judge,
citing himself as an expert (he was childless up until this past year because he
took 6 hours of classes). Who better to tell the judge what is really
going on than 1) the teenager herself, 2) the psychologist who treats the
teenager every week or 3) the specialist who has diagnosed the PTSD coming from
the sexual molestation?
But secondly, let's consider another side of this issue. We fought for
almost 3 years to get a judgement against my ex-husband who refuses to pay child
support. Judge Rideout refused to rule on my ex-husband being a deadbeat dad and
the GAL insisted it was not his job to enforce child support orders either
(~!!!!). After going to a higher court and having a hearing in Judge Haddock's
court (Appeals Court), he issues judgements from the bench to get my ex-husband
back to paying his child support. He tasked ALL of the attorneys present
at the hearing to bring back into the courtroom the FIRST time my ex-husband was
even a week late, because my ex-husband (at that time) was over 4 years behind
at a 50% reduced rate of the VA statues.
My ex got 6 months plus behind and NONE of the attorneys at that hearing
would agree to go back in front of Judge Haddock and advise him my ex was once
again behind. The GAL was dismissed from this case on October 30, 2002,
although he was not dismissed as the trustee of the monies collected so far from
behind child support.
Sometime between October 20, 2003 and January 2003 -- somehow -- someway -- and
not one attorney can tell us how my ex-husband's attorney managed this, the
slate was ERASED COMPLETELY CLEAN of ALL outstanding child support debt. Over
$20,000+ in judgements and monies just disappeared off the face of the earth -
and no one can tell me how all of this was deleted/erased from the Virginia
Child Support Services system. If my ex-husband's case number is pulled up
now, it shows him as owing ~0~. Where did all that money go? That
was my daughter's college fund. Four years from now, per the agreements I
signed in 1997, there SHOULD have been over $40,000 in a trust fund in my
daughter's name for college.
Tell me there's not some major "fix" or crookedness going on in this
case.
A sexual predator is allowed to molest over and over his biological child under
the guise of fathers' rights... thousands of dollars just disappear without a
trace... and everyone keeps looking the other way when I attempt to bring these
things to their attention.
I have a young teenager who's psychologist says can no longer psychologically
handle these visitations because of the abuse and molestations. I
asked to have the child support cut in half - half to go into an interest
bearing trust account in her name and the other half was to be spent for travel
expenses so my ex-husband could see his daughter here in CA (he's a travel
agent, btw, and travels for free). Not once in 5 years has he come
out to CA to see Desiree because he filed false police reports here in the State
of CA and faces a civil warrant when he crosses the state line. In 5
years, he's called her 7 times (5 being court-ordered). And for that, he
recieves a reduction of $3,150 per year in child support, that rightfully should
also be going into a trust account for Desiree's college. Her college fund
has vanished.
Any wonder between the abuse and molestation, she literally hates the ground he
walks on? And now says she will not ever again go to VA unless it is in
handcuffs? And you know? I can't blame her.
We have refinanced my husband's house twice now to pay for legal fees to attempt
and keep her safe - or at worst - get supervised visitation visits. We've
spent $38,000 in legal fees on this case alone.
So should your newspaper be interested in this case? Any idea how many
other children in Virginia are going through this same kind of hell because of
the massively-screwed up set of family courts combined with the child protective
services that lose child after child 'through the cracks'?
Children are NOT property - regardless of the state, EVERY child is
entitled to be free from abuse and molestation, as well as to be financially
supported by BOTH parents, not just the mom who's been there 24/7 through it
all. Desiree's case is not unique - at least once a week some mom or dad
writes to me, telling about the horrors they are going through. Currently
there are over 50 GALs in VA being investigated because of the way they've
handled their cases and their clients' monies. Investigation goes on -
children die - and it all remains covered up because no one in VA wants to step
forward and take a good hard look at what's going on.
Sincerely,
Linda Nelson (Mother)
(805) 581-9428