The Fight For
Spencer
Across the Carolinas, Christian
families are battling local departments of social services for
custody of their children and other basic parental rights. Even
well-intentioned family court judges and social workers often find
their hands bound by regulations, and their good intentions
undermined by goals and financial incentives. In a Charlotte World
exclusive, here is one North Carolina family’s story.
Angie Vineyard
Charlotte—After
battling the Department of Social Services (DSS) in court for an
entire year, a Christian couple has finally been given full custody
of their oldest son. A hearing judge for the clerk of Mecklenburg
County Superior Court ruled on February 19 that 18-year-old Spencer
should immediately go home with his parents, Jack and Kathy
Stratton.
“It was like God shining light in (the courtroom),”
said Aana Lisa Whatley, who heads up the North Carolina-based
McDowell Street Center for Family Law, or MSCFL.
Whatley is
not involved with the case but attended the six-hour hearing because
of her interest in the way DSS handled its procedures. She believes
that while this case was unusual, it is an example of why Christians
need to be vigilant in dealings with departments of social services
around the Carolinas. “I just thank God that the Strattons finally
got a Christian lawyer and that people were watching this case,” she
said. Otherwise, she believes, things might not have turned out as
they did for the Strattons.
The Stratton nightmare began
more than a year ago, when the Mecklenburg County DSS took custody
of all ten of the Stratton’s natural-born children, alleging that
the children did not receive adequate care, supervision and
discipline and their environment was injurious to their welfare. The
Strattons have appeared numerous times before Judge Libby Miller to
answer those charges in juvenile court. But not until Spencer aged
out of the the juvenile court jurisdiction in January and his case
went before a different judge, have the Strattons seen any progress
in trying to get custody of their children.
While in DSS
custody, Spencer has been attending Metro School, a public school
dedicated entirely to helping children with special needs. His
physical and mental state are such that a judge has found him to be
incompetent and therefore needing a legal guardian. At the end of
the hearing, guardianship was awarded to Kathy Stratton.
“I
was cautiously optimistic,” said Kathy, who didn’t believe until the
very last minute of the trial that she and her husband would be
reunited with Spencer. “It was obvious that DSS had a plan to keep
us from our children.”
Kathy isn’t the only one that thinks
all objectivity had been lost in the case.
“This is the most
bizarre thing I’ve ever seen in my life,” said Whatley, who works
with DSS on occasion through her non-profit law firm. “Most of the
time when DSS is involved, there is drug abuse, alcohol abuse (or)
domestic violence. But when you have an intact family with a
long-term marriage and loving parents, we’ve never seen this
situation where they’re trying to take the children away from their
parents.”
Whatley is convinced that because the Strattons are
an interracial couple with little money, they’ve been unfairly
judged. Kathy is African-American and Jack is Caucasian.
“They’re being discriminated against because they’re poor,”
said Whatley. “This is a family that does not want to take
government assistance (and) that is being held against them. This is
ludicrous!”
Whatley said that one example of either DSS’s
obvious bias or their lack of professionalism involved the condition
of the Strattons’ home. After DSS made an initial visit in December
2000, the Strattons moved their children to a log cabin in Gaston
County, where they stayed for six weeks before social workers found
them. When DSS came to take the children away, they noted in their
report that an extension cord ran from the house next door into the
Strattons’ window and therefore the Strattons had no electricity. In
reality, the Strattons did have electricity. A neighbor had asked to
use the Stratton’s electricity to plug up his power saw.
“I
thought that was just horrible,” said Whatley. “They had
electricity. Yet this entire time, it has stayed in the (court)
record that they had no electricity. They never investigated to find
out that they did have (it). It was taking facts that fit what they
wanted to believe. They didn’t want to hear the
truth.”
Whatley said that until Michael Schmidt of the
Patrick Henry Christian Legal Alliance (the North Carolina affiliate
of the Alliance Defense Fund) took their case last November, the
Strattons have suffered from poor court-appointed representation and
have never had an opportunity to put evidence in court.
“There’s so much prejudicial information recorded and
accepted by the court,” she said.
Tina Ridge, an attorney who
works with Whatley at the McDowell Street Center for Family Law who
also attended the hearing, was amazed at one social worker’s
testimony.
One of DSS’s allegations was that Jack Stratton
had sexually and physically abused his children and therefore should
not be granted custody. Yet when social worker Susan Miller
testified, the social worker initially did not say anything at all
about sexual or physical abuse.
“I was really surprised by
that,” said Ridge. “If that had been my job and that was a major
concern to me as to why I didn’t want the kids to go back (with
their parents), I would have made that a priority and she didn’t
make it a priority. It was just the last thing she threw
in.”
But the reason it was “the last thing she threw in” was
because there was no real evidence of any abuse. When Miller finally
did make her allegation in open court, she admitted that the only
thing that led her to believe Jack Stratton could have sexually and
physically abused his children was a drawing that one of the
children had made after being taken into DSS custody.
“In my
opinion it was one of the most shocking moments of testimony that I
have ever witnessed in all of my years of being in trial court,”
said Schmidt, an attorney for the Strattons.
“For a so-called
professional to get up and make an allegation of enormity and
seriousness based upon a drawing of a child when that child has been
in foster care and has been around who knows what,” said Schmidt. “I
was appalled.”
Susan Miller did not return phone calls. Nor
would other DSS officials speak on the record, but they suggested
that this concern over possible sexual abuse was the reason that the
hearings had been kept closed to the public, despite repeated
attempts by The Charlotte World, The Triad World’s sister
publication, to have the hearings opened.
Schmidt refused to
talk about the Strattons’ nine other children and would only speak
about Spencer since he has reached the age of majority.
A key
element of the DSS case against the Stratton’s parents was the
assertion that Spencer had made great progress since being taken
from his parents, and by implication that the Strattons had been
neglecting Spencer’s development. But Spencer’s own grandmother
testified that she didn’t even recognize him after being placed in
their care. She remembered Spencer coming next door to her house
without any assistance, playing basketball and kickball with his
siblings and having a vocabulary. Now, Spencer has lost 10 lbs. and
is nonverbal.
“If this is progress,” said Joan Stratton, “I
don’t want any part of it.”
DSS attorney Tyrone Wade would
not speak about the case since it was so closely connected with the
Strattons’ nine other children.
“There are different rules
that apply in adult proceedings and juvenile proceedings,” he said.
“I think the judge did what he had to do.”
“They’re just
trying to defend their position,” said Whatley of DSS. “They’re not
going to say ‘We were wrong.’ If they took these children and said
they were wrong, they might have a lawsuite on their hands. They’ve
missed birthdays, holidays. You can’t put a pricetag on
that.”
Schmidt said the Feb. 19 ruling was “very significant”
and it should “be a very dramatic indicator that the children should
all be back in the home of the parents.”
But he added that
the fight for the other nine children was an uphill battle “because
it’s a fight aligned against an entire system of government
employees that essentially work together and who have lost their
objectivity because of their hostility toward the
parents.”
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