It all began when the father to my 4 children ages: 16/10/8/7  walked out on us back on July 6th 02 its been one year now. Then the worst happened to me on August 1st 02 the state of Missouri took my children away saying horrible things like the hot-line reports stated I was going to kill my children but all of it was lies. During our time together as a family I was depressed & didn't even know it from the fathers abuse to my children & I don't ever remember saying anything like that about my children. i love my children dearly with all my heart. Hes the one who has threatened to kill my oldest son before & me as well & the state gives abusive father my kids not knowing he was even that way its not right at all.
Not at all. He was never checked out & if he was he would lie himself out of it like from hot-lines I had made afterwards he just lied himself out of it.
Even my oldest son was choked by this monster & my son even lied to the hot-line people when they went to that house they are at.  see the dad moved in with his two nutty sisters who has caused me more heartache & trouble all these months. Been very controling (Brainwashing & all)
As time went on here come divorce papers I did not know was coming & i had no idea about this divorce happening. Another one of his sisters doings you would say. since the father can't say much for himself so what ever they say he does thats how the dad is. Hes got mental problems. He was like a time bomb waiting to go off & one day it did.
The choking of my oldest son & more & more of hurting my little boy more & the boys not being able to get around their own sisters unless the father went crazy.  He had a sick mine for little girls. i know my neice was a victim when she was almost 9-1/2 years old & he denies it today. shes almost 21 now in aug.  See how sick he was & when my oldest daughter was almost 3-1/2 a hot-line call come in about her & the father hurting her. It was alful & to this day I do not trust him around my girls they are 10 & 7 he could hurt them & i would never know anything about it just like just recently he & his alful sisters had my little boy locked up in a place for 10 long days & hes 8 & me the mother had no idea about it not a word now hes all doped up on medicine hes never been on before like Paxil twice a day (Which according to the news its harmful to kids his age)
& another medicine called Zyprexa 2.5 mg & the other is 10 & 20 mg Paxil & they will tell you the doctor & the nutty sisters his medicine of Paxil has been cut down to 10 mg of Paxil but I seen the pills myself & so did my sister-in-law who is a nurse seen the medicine one day. They can't fool me the mother no way. They got my 7 year old daughter on a medicine called Strattera 25 mg
See my kids never ever had a medical record before & never been on this medicine before.
Its his family doing it to my children & the dad not having enough sense to say yes or no one way or the other about nothing because he can't he never made decisions before. i did it all. i raised my children all by myself with no help from the lazy/Deadbeat father who never in our 27 years of marriage had a full time job to support us. All he knew how to do is hurt us & the verbal abuse was just as bad.  Now the judge gives someone like him my children its all totally wrong  (All wrong)  My kids belongs with me not people like where they are. I did have a lawyer but he never even got my witnesses in court of people seeing my kids dad hurting my kids see what a lawyer he was done a divorce I never asked for well for one thing was tricked all he was in a hurry for was his money.  And the bunch whos got my children is only in it for the money not the kids.
Using my precious kids for bait is sick very much.
I care about my kids not the money. they are my whole life. I live for my children.  I was married 12 long years before i had my first baby a son & been proud of my children ever since. Being without them all these 11 months has hurt a great great deal. the welfare stopped my weekend visits just on June 20th over just plain lies my oldest daughter telling them see how they are doing me dirty the whole system is in need of help.  It don't matter whether you are poor or rich a mother should not get treated like I have been treated.
Its all wrong & i want justice done for all the mothers who has lost their children through any kind of welfare system to listen to us. If it was them would they stand for their children to be taken out of bed at around 1:00 in the morning a screaming for mama & not knowing what is going on either no I don't think so will they allow it to happen to their own children. It happened to me & at that time in the morning & the father getting away with everything just because his precious sisters taking up for their precious 48 year old over grown brother is all he is.  A big baby if you would.   I have wrote judges/congress lady/talked to many attorneys about my case/many different people/ & the welfare is not gonna listen it will be to late to listen cause my 16 year old son was trying to kill me & his little brother just a few weeks ago did the law do anything no way & reported it to the hot-line which was a big mistake they didn't help me either & my oldest son is so full of anger from all the abuse from age 10 up until the day the father walked out on us & hating his little brother just because the dad hated both boys so much before. My little boy was 2-1/2 when the dad started hurting him & hes 8 today the medicine is helping the anger he was a mess before so out of control it hurt me so much as a mother trying to keep things under control & the father ripping out phone lines & breaking phones & threatening to kill me even if I tryed to call the police & now hes the fit parent to have my children. Wake up people hes a unfit father & many more things I could mention about him. but it would take up months & months of telling you how he was to us.  THEY BELONG WITH ME THE ONE PERSON WHO KNOWS WHAT IS BEST FOR HER OWN CHILDREN.  PLEASE HELP ME GET THROUGH TO THESE PEOPLE THAT HAS CAUSED ME PROBLEMS & TAKING OVER MY KIDS LIFES.
Thank-you for listening to me.  Debra Workman
From Malden,Missouri

County: Dunklin
Home phone number:
573-276-2084