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A foster parent speaks out

                Mary Callahan is an author of two books, an emergency room nurse, and a foster parent in Maine, a state forced to confront the failures of its Department of Human Services (DHS) when five-year-old Logan Marr was taken from her mother, Christie, only to die in foster care, bound to a high chair with 42 feet of duct tape.  The foster mother was convicted of manslaughter.

As new leadership faced up to the problems in Maine, Mary Callahan became a respected voice for reform.  She was invited to give a presentation to an Advisory Commission working on restructuring human services in Maine.  This is the text of that presentation, given on August 7, 2003

Petition- STOP FOSTER PARENT ABUSE

Body of Petition:
This petition is designed with foster parents in mind. Many times false allegations of abuse and neglect are made against foster parents by the children in their care.
The protocol followed by social service agencies nationwide is to believe the foster child who has made an allegation. The child can lie and not be held accountable for lying. It is up to the foster parent to prove the allegations are false, but because of a flawed system that dictates that a report made by a foster child is confidential, when an allegation is made against a foster parent, the actual facts of the report are not shared with the accused because of confidentiality.
How can you defend yourself against an unknown?
http://www.petitionpetition.com/cgi/petition.cgi?id=4388

Sponsor of Petition:
Sharon LaCouture of the FosterCareInfoCenter.com


Are you a child of the State foster care system? Are you a non-abusive parent of a child/children taken by the state? Were you placed in foster care and shifted from home to home, or emotionally, physically, or sexually abused while in the care of the State?

If so, you fit in the category called Generation Lost!

Are you know growing out of the system and lost? This site is for you and your lost family members. 

Former Foster Children Stories
FormerFosterChildrenStories@groups.msn.com



Good Foster Parents are being swept into the False Allegation Vortex too!

False Allegations....The Dark Side of Foster Care:
http://members.aol.com/fpallegations/

Online Yahoo! Support Group:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/fosterparentallegations/


National Foster Parent Association, Inc


Fosters Online

This site is dedicated to all Step Parents. Our goal is to provide you with the resources, tools and support you need to build a successful relationship with your step children. Whether you're just starting a relationship with someone who has children or you've been at it for years, there are challenges facing you as a step parent. The key to overcoming these challenges is knowledge. We'd like to arm you with some of that knowledge.

State Adoption Subsidy Profiles


The Dave Thomas Center
for Adoption Law

At Capital University Law School

Parents Network for the Post Institutionalized Child

ATTACh-the Association for Treatment and Training in the Attachment of Children (ATTACh) is an international coalition of parents, professionals and others working to increase awareness about attachment and its critical importance to human development. Founded in 1989 by leaders in the children's mental health field, ATTACh promotes clinical education, training and research, promotes standards for ethical practice, helps develop diagnostic classifications in the mental health field, generates public policy discussions and offers family support. Membership in ATTACh is open to any therapist, parent or individual interested in attachment issues.


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Attachment Disorder Site

A PLACE FOR INFORMATION, SUPPORT AND HOPE REGARDING
REACTIVE ATTACHMENT DISORDER


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Older Child Adoption
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S t y l e

News - Views - Comments from around New Zealand
on the first New Zealand homepage for all Foster Parents.

HELP AGAINST FALSE ALLEGATIONS


The Kid Pound- The Kiddie Mill- a fresh batch from CAPTA Industries

AdoptUSKids

Adoptable Kids.com

Adoption.com

National Adoption Center

This particular ad has been running for a long time in Colorado Thrifty Nickel papers.

Fort Collins, CO | View other Miscellaneous in Fort Collins
BECOME A Foster Parent. Help an abused and neglected child. Compensation, up
to $1000. monthly/child. Non-taxable. 888-292-6824

Denver, CO | View other Miscellaneous in Denver
BECOME A foster parent, help an abused and neglected child. Compensation
$400-$1000/month/child non taxable. 888-292-6824.

Pueblo, CO | View other Miscellaneous in Pueblo
BECOME A foster parent! Help an abused or neglected child. Compensation up to
$1,000 monthly per child. Non-taxable. (888)292-6824.

Naw, it's not about the money...-Harry L. Simpkins

AFRA Editor- You just have to wonder how a TAX FREE grand a month couldn't have helped the Natural Parents a LOT since MOST of the kids
were removed from their HOMES on poverty-neglect charges.